In school, in every class I listen and pay attention, even though I’m doing another thing. When teachers talk, talk and talk, most of the time I find something to do; like looking for the homework for the next day or doing it. Even though I’m doing something with my hands, I always listen to what the teacher is saying because maybe it is something that will help me for the test or is an interesting conversation.
2. How much do I learn by listening?
Listening is better than studying. Every time that I listen the explanations that teachers give, I don’t have to study at home, just reread the information. Listening is a better way to study, because it will stay in my mind forever not just for the exam.
3. Do I listen carefully to what my friends say?
I really like to listen to what my friends say. I like to give them advices and most of the times, I like to feel what they are feeling, so I can understand them. I like to listen my friends as they listen me, listening is the clue for a relationship, because in that way you can know what are the feeling of them and what they think. Listening is also a distraction of my life and is an advice from my friends, because it shows me situations of life.
4. What do I learn from them?Most of the time that my friends talk me, what I learn is an advice for my life, because I learn from their situations. I also learn that everybody has problems or happy situations, as I do. My life is full of fee 5. When is it difficult for me to listen?
Sometimes my mind is focused on other thoughts, most of the times it happens when I have I fight with a friend, boy friend or someone of my family.
6. What makes it difficult?
That when I’m having a fight with someone else, my mind cannot focus on the class because in that moment I give more importance to my life than to the class.
7. What kind of music do I listen to?
The music I listen is: pop, R&B, and sometimes reggaeton.
8. Why do I like them?
I like pop because it makes me pay attention to the lyrics of the song and also I like the rhythms. I like R&B because I like the rhythms and those rhythms makes me happy. Reggaeton is good for parties or for social reunions, like a meeting with my friends, because of the rhythms.
9. What TV shows and movies are my favorites?The TV shows I like are: Gossip Girl, How I met your mother, back to you
My favorite movies are: Just like heaven, sweet home Alabama, Music and Lyrics, something’s gotta give, the holiday.
10. What do I like about them?I like to watch these TV shows because the first is interesting because it’s a total intrigue, the other is funny and it’s a total comedy and the last one is sweet and intriguing.
These movies are my favorites because are romantic comedies; they are the ideal way of love and in some way are funny because is something that won’t happen in the real world.
11. What else do I like to see and watch?Well, I like to see are some reality shows of news shows, or just see the news. 12. What is special about these?
I like to be aware of what is happening in the world, a little bit of politics, a little bit of celebrities, well, a little bit of everything that is happening in the world.
13. How do I feel about speaking to friends?
I feel really good because my friends are those who give me confidence, so I trust them. Talking to my friends is special because I express myself and sometimes I receive advices that help me in my life, but most of all what I like to receive is comprehension.
14. What do I like to talk them about?
I like to talk them about my life, sometimes they are really helpful, because when I have a problem I can take those feelings out and sometimes I cry. I also like to talk them about any thought that I have in my mind, even though it is a joke or an irrelevant thing.
15. How do I feel about talking to adults?
Depending who is, because if he or she is somebody of my family, well, there exists some confidence that makes me feel secure. When is somebody that I don’t really know, well, I try to talk but is difficult, but after some words, I starting feeling comfortable, so then I can talk him/her about anything.
16. Why do I feel this way?
About a stranger that I met at that moment I feel this way because is really difficult to find a theme that I can talk with somebody that I don’t know, but after we find a theme, it becomes easier for me to talk and shame my thoughts and feelings.
17. How do I feel about reciting or speaking to the class?
I DON’T like to recite or speak in front of my classmates; I start to tremble because of my nerves.
18. Why do I feel this way?
My nerves makes me feel uncomfortable, because I think that my classmates intimidate me, and also I start thinking about “what they are going to say about me, or about my speech”
19. Have I given any speeches or been in any plays?
I have given speeches, but as I said, my nerves dominate my body and my speaking. I like plays and I have been in plays, these make me feel nervous but not as speeches does because plays are things that I have practiced many times before and I’m sure of what I’m doing and saying.
20. How did I or would I like doing this?
I like plays because I have fun and make me feel comfortable, but I don’t like speeches because make me feel uncomfortable, but I know that I work on that in an easy way.
21. What is the most difficult thing about speaking?
The most difficult thing about speaking is that I think and rethink what I’m going to say.
22. Why is it difficult? It is difficult because I have to think the things once and then say them, but I think that it is part of insecurity.
